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How to Analyze and Solve Lesbian Couple Problems

There are three basic types of relationship problems: past, present and future. Although the analysis can be applied to each type, the procedure is slightly different for everyone.

With the problems of the past, one of the most useful methods is to find recurring patterns and try to analyze what models have in common. For example, suppose you have had several relationships ended because of the abuse of drugs or alcohol. Were there warning signs that you ignored? Were you looking for someone to "save"? We would have liked "living on the edge" until things were beyond the point of no return?

Avoid thinking in terms of "guilt" and focus on "responsibility". Very few relationships end because one part is 100% wrong.

And very few end because each game is responsible for 50%. It may be helpful to analyze the relationship stages:

"At first it was exciting to be with the life of the party."

"It was scary when we arrived home drunk."

"I was angry when she lost her job and had to start paying all the bills."

"It was impossible when the fighting began and deported."

Weigh your options where they went wrong, develop a set of basic guidelines. For example, if one of your models is the partner without money stops working and allows you to pay all your bills, you can choose not to get involved with someone, unless they have a house, a car and a job .

Some of the most difficult problems are the current problems.

For them, an analysis of ABC can be helpful. One is the action that triggers the problem; B is the belief (usually bad) that amplifies the problem; C is the consequence of this belief, and D is the different response that can de-merge problem. For example, you feel insecure in the relationship and your partner does something suspicious, such as home late. (This is the action.) The mistaken belief (that you are not good enough and your partner probably see someone else) leading to accuse him of cheating (consequence).

What different responses could get a better result than the hysterical accusations?

Expressing concern loving? (I was worried. Are you okay?) Do not say anything? (And not bump, hit the pillow, or kicking the cat!)

Sometimes the more effective analysis of the current problems is to ask "how am I to live?" Before starting a confrontation, ask yourself, "Is it really worth arguing about?"

Finally, the best way to prevent future problems is to recognize that you are not perfect, accept the couple who loves you anyway, and love despite their imperfections.